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Hot flashes

Hot flashes, explained: what's happening and how women find relief

By the Our Menopause Club editorial team · June 2026 · 6 min read

Woman standing by an open window enjoying a cool breeze with a glass of iced water

A wave of heat that starts in the chest and climbs. A flushed face in the middle of a meeting. Waking at 2am with damp sheets. Hot flashes are the most recognized experience of the menopause transition — and among the most commonly reported, with major health organizations noting that most women experience them at some point in the transition.

What's commonly happening

Researchers describe hot flashes as the brain's thermostat becoming temporarily more sensitive. As hormone levels shift, the range of body temperatures the brain considers "fine" narrows. Small changes that once went unnoticed — a warm room, a hot drink, a stressful moment — can now cross the threshold and trigger the body's full cooling response: dilated blood vessels, flushing, sweating.

Flashes vary enormously between women — in frequency, intensity, and how long they remain part of life. For some they're an occasional flicker; for others they arrive many times a day. Both patterns are commonly reported, and neither means anything is wrong with you.

Strategies many women use

  • Dressing in removable layers, and choosing natural, breathable fabrics
  • Keeping something cold nearby — iced water, a small fan, a cool cloth
  • Noticing personal triggers; alcohol, caffeine, spicy food, and warm rooms are frequently mentioned
  • Slow, steady breathing at the first sign of a flash — many women say it softens the peak
  • Keeping the bedroom cool at night, since night sweats are the same event in a different setting

If hot flashes are disrupting your work, sleep, or wellbeing, bring it up with your doctor — and be specific about frequency and impact. There are several approaches clinicians discuss for managing flashes, including lifestyle changes and medical options; which is right for you is exactly the conversation your doctor is there for. Tracking when your flashes happen for a couple of weeks beforehand gives that conversation a running start.

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